Will You Go Out With Me?
- Heather Beebe
- Jul 10
- 3 min read
A story about love, growth, and the retreat we wish existed when we first began.
Five years ago, my boyfriend Bruce and I were in the early days of our relationship. Both of us had done a lot of work on ourselves—emotionally, spiritually, relationally. We were ready for something different. Something real. Something conscious. But we were also tender. Fragile, even. Anyone who's gone through hard relationship lessons knows that starting again, even when you're ready, can feel like stepping onto sacred ground barefoot.
From the very beginning, we chose truth. We led with transparency, not performance. Vulnerability wasn’t a buzzword—it was the doorway into trust. We talked about the hard stuff on day one. Not because it was easy, but because anything else would’ve felt dishonest. And somehow, that raw honesty became the most beautiful, liberating thing. We didn’t try to impress each other—we just tried to see each other.
We held space for each other’s pasts while building a future we both deeply wanted. And what we found was this: when someone sees you—really sees you—with loving eyes, something inside you softens. Shame starts to dissolve. What used to feel like bruises now feel like places where tenderness lives. You become less afraid of your own shadow, because someone else is not just accepting it but embracing it.
For the first time in my life, I was in a relationship where growth was not only welcome—it was mutual. I didn’t even know that was one of my values until I experienced it. Suddenly, I was with someone who didn’t just understand my hunger to read, learn, evolve—he shared it. We found ourselves spending weekends holed up with books, journals, podcasts, and deep conversations. We lived intentionally, and it felt like medicine.
Were there hard moments? Absolutely. But even those felt different. There was gentleness. There was intention. There were walls that stayed down, even when it was hard. And when we slipped? We repaired. We learned. We recommitted to growth.
What we didn’t know back then was that this way of being together would become the blueprint for something much bigger.
Enter: The Couple’s Retreat
Over time, we realized how much we craved community with other growth-minded couples. Not just dinners and drinks, but spaces where we could connect over big ideas, aligned values, and intentional living. We wanted friendships that energized us, not drained us. But finding those spaces wasn’t always easy. In fact, it was often lonely. Especially when you start outgrowing old environments but haven’t yet found your new tribe.
So we created what we wished existed back then.
Our Couple’s Retreats were born out of that desire—to gather couples who value deep connection, personal evolution, and conscious partnership. This retreat isn’t about fixing something broken. It’s about nurturing something already blossoming. It’s for couples who are already connected… and want to take things even deeper.
What to Expect
We’ve carefully designed our upcoming fall retreat to feel like a soft landing and a powerful launch. Set at the beautiful SeaGlass Inn—nestled between the river and the ocean with a serene park across the street and a gourmet steakhouse next door—you’ll have the space to unwind, connect, and grow together.
Your experience will include:
Guided conversations and workshops designed to spark intimacy and self-awareness
Space for play, fun, and relaxation (because laughter is medicine too)
Thoughtfully curated meals and luxurious accommodations
Time for integration and solo connection with your partner
Access to expert facilitators who help us hold this container with wisdom and care
And after the weekend? The journey doesn't end.
You’ll receive 45 days of continued support—because real life begins when the retreat ends, and we want to walk with you through that integration.
This Is for You If…
You and your partner are both committed to personal growth
You crave deeper connection, curiosity, and intentional time together
You want to be in the company of other conscious, inspiring couples
You’re not looking for therapy—you’re looking for expansion
Let’s Grow Together
The theme of this retreat is “Will You Go Out With Me?”—a playful nod to both the early stages of dating and the ongoing invitation to evolve together. It’s a call to say yes, again and again, to deepening intimacy and creating a relationship that reflects who you are now… not who you were back then.
If this speaks to you, we’d be honored to have you join us.
Let’s create something beautiful—together.
For Better, Not Worse,
Heather Beebe
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